Hey everyone! Today I am going to be doing something a bit different and a bit more of a heart to heart post. I don’t normally do these and I am a little bit nervous but here it goes. Also, let me know if you like these types of posts and want to see more. I actually started to write this post a few days ago and then I stopped. Then I got a not so nice comment and it made me really want to keep writing this because it is so important.
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The other day I got my first “hate” (negative) comment. I am not going to talk much about what it said but it obviously wasn’t very nice. I really do not see the point in commenting negative things on bloggers posts that they put effort into. It really does make me sad that people feel the need to spread negativity like this, not just through comments.
I would like to say that I don’t care what people think, but obviously I do, being a blogger. I like to comment nice and supportive things on other bloggers posts and it means a lot to me when people do the same. If you do as well, great! If you are someone that comments negative things, please stop and think about what that is going to accomplish. You are going to make that person feel bad about themselves, that’s it. You wouldn’t want someone to do that to you, so don’t do it to other people.
People that comment negative and hateful things are really quite sad. They could be sending a comment to someone who is already insecure about something or someone who is already depressed. You could have just wrecked their day, why would you do that? Make sure to think about your actions and how they can affect people, not just negatively but positively as well.
There is already a lot of negativity in this world and I think it is very important to spread positivity and kindness. I am obviously not a perfect example of this and I am going to be working on this as well. I like to use my blog as a positive platform even though I don’t have a ton of followers. If one person is reading this then that’s amazing!
This week, please try to be extra mindful of the kind of vibes you are giving off. Give someone a compliment, don’t complain as often, comment something nice, let someone into your lane when driving, smile at someone on the street. Really be mindful of your actions and set a good example. When someone is nice to you, it really does make you happier. When you are kind, people are more likely to do the same.
I pray that this reached someone and made an impact on you. Being positive and kind really does impact people a lot more than you would think so PLEASE try to do one of the things I listed above. Also, please let me know in the comments if you do and how it made you feel. Thank you so much for reading, following me and commenting nice things! 🙂
you truly are amazing and have the power to do so much, so make it count 🙂